In the passage for this Sunday, Jesus tells his disciples not to hit back when attacked (Matthew 5:38). Jesus' genius lies in the science of human behaviour. If someone is angry with you, then why should you make it your problem and get angry in return? Instead of this, you can be more expansive and play the long game. If you do not retaliate then you leave the other person with the responsibility for their own behaviour, because they then need to deal with their own anger. Holding yourself in check and not needing to get your own back is not an indication of weakness but a sign of strength - 'power is nothing without control'.

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